Love Experts: Kamasutra - The Art of Living (Part 2)

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This blog Kama sutra - Science vs. Sex (Part II) is continuation of Kamasutra - The Art of Living (Part 1). Here, we will be sharing about healthy sex relationship and sexual satisfaction.

Also we will be linking Kama Shastra (art of sensual lovemaking), Vastu Shastra (science of buildings) and Ayurveda (science of well being). A person who follows these three science can have a HSU (Happy Sex Union) and can achieve total wellness. Sex has lot of benefits, it does not only introduce you to new definitions of pleasure, but also gives you mental satisfaction. A person starving from sex can have a life full of anger and frustration.

Now, let’s see how Kama sutra is related to other sciences of nature:

Kama sutra & Vaastu Shastra

As per Vaastu Shastra the couple that has sex in south west direction gets more of sexual satisfaction. For a newly married couple even the northwest direction is good. The Wind element which governs this direction can give much air to the newly awakened sexual fires of the newlywed couple, but they should keep their bedroom in this direction only for some initial time and not permanently as this is an unstable direction.

Those who follow vaastu shastra for a sex life are blessed with a healthy baby in return. Kama shastra further elaborates the sensuous and sacred love bonding between two bodies. To attain ultimate happiness and satisfaction, it is advised to perform sex after sunset and in recommended directions only. Also, you can experience meditative sleep, i.e., head should be in east or south and feet should be in west or north directions respectively.

Kama sutra & Ayurveda

Ayurveda describes 84 sex positions for better living with maximum pleasure naturally. It is also suggested that a person should sleep on his right side first 30 minutes and then to left side as this promotes better functioning of right nostril and allows free flow of air to the left nostril also. The right nostril give warmth and activates the human body, which further creates interest of an individual to have better diet or foodings, a sound sleep and happy long lasting sex life. Sleeping on back and stomach for long hours invites diseases.

Raising Kundalini the Safe Way

Satisfying sex between loving partners can partially raises their Kundalini if performed in right way. Well, for those who are not aware of Kundalini let me explain that it is the only immense latent power at a subtle center at the base of the spine near the organs of procreation and defecation. In ordinary people this power is like a sleeping serpent which is sitting there coiled up. As the Kundalini is raised the serpent wakes up and the tremendous power rises up along the subtle nerve called Sushmananadiin the spinal column. As soon as this force rises it opens up certain subtle spiritual centers of awareness and the lucky person becomes dynamic and an awakened being.

Here a word of warning; raising the Kundalini through wrong practices or prematurely can land one in a mental home, so leave it alone. Only right kind of sex between true loving partners can partially raises the Kundalini in a safe way and can help the partners to evolve.

Importance of having a healthy sex

The individuals who does not have regularity in having sex or over sexually active are prone to lose strength, resulting in a weak immune system & imbalance in body salts. Depletion of vitality in such individuals invites more of different diseases.

The individual who regulate their sexual energy regularly have a sharp memory, high level of strength, power, better health and long life. Sex is a vigorous exercise.

Although it is nowhere defined that - how sex life of a person should be scheduled? Sexual habit depends over person-to-person as per there: Genetic nature (DNA), eating habits or nutrition intake, physical activities/ workout & last but not the least partner’s interest or approach.

Sexual Satisfaction and Masturbation

Most of the couple lacks in having a mutual satisfaction. They fail to enjoy and take time for sex. Individual seeks for self gratification or self satisfaction.

Sexual satisfaction is not about union of genital organs. It occurs between two partners. The bonding of two lovers is not instant but with due respect to time, it develops.

Initially, individual is not experienced about sex. But with course of time, sex experience develops and it improves sexual satisfaction in a couple. So, keep patience if you are facing anything like this.

Sexual Satisfaction differs from bed to bed, and case to case. Some attains the peak of pleasure in short duration of time, and some take much more time in understanding their own sexual needs, responsibility of fulfilling spouse’s sexual needs, etc.

It is important to stick to one partner and respect one another.

Masturbation does not assure satisfaction of the mind and soul but it wastes one’s energy. Although it has no side effects if done in limits.

Best position, if planning a baby

Male should be on top position as this allows flow of sperm to ovum without any obstruction. This makes the zygote to implant itself in the wall of uterus.

Some tips

After sex you should urinate, as this expels residue of air from pelvis.

Warm water bath or at least private part cleaning with lukewarm water is suggested to have a relaxed body.

Glass of milk with handful of almonds or dry fruits is advised to regain energy.

Lack of Garbh Sanskar - Major side effects of Unhealthy sex life.

Women who have unsatisfied sexual urge are prone to have anger and frustration, which imbalances the emotions, blood flow, menstrual cycle and reproductive system. This makes the conceiving or pregnancy difficult. Moreover, if conceived - the baby in the womb is transferred with many toxins and impure blood. The environment and foundation of such constituted child is unfortunately unhealthy. The child or fetus lacks in ojas, which is a purest expression of metabolism and digestion.